I chuckled, does that make me a bad person?

But then chances are they start playing the blame game and pointing fingers at each other or their label or their fans. I think it's important to find a happy medium between too much and not enough info, and I think this band has done just that.

Then don't fucking read it dickbag

They are and what the dude said made no sense anyway

Here's the real deal. Because you got SO defensive, SO butthurt and upset about it, people are going to rag on you. Not because you are a woman, but because you took everything so personally and seriously. These are (relatively) anonymous comments on an internet forum. People are going to say stupid things. They are going to say things you aren't going to agree with. They are going to mock your opinions. And most people know that 99.9% of what is said on here DOES NOT MATTER IN ANY WAY AT ALL. When you take it too seriously and get all agitated, people are going to make fun of you, that's the way the world works. And because they don't know you - people will go for any perceived weakness - in other words, hit you where they know it will hurt. In your case, that's being a female. Not because they think less of females, but because they KNOW they will get a reaction out of you by doing so.

I suggest you settle down, put on your big girl pants, and try to not get so worked up by what a bunch of people on the internet say about your friends. If you can't handle that, my suggestion would be to abstain from internet usage until you are at least 24 and have calmed down a bit.

For your information, before you fly off the handle again, "put on your big girl pants" is not sexist. I use it all the time in it's "big boy pants" version. If anything, it's ageist becaue I'm suggesting something negative about younger people.

You came here 'defending your friends' and people started dishing out more of what you were serving. Just let it go. Congrats to you and your friends.

hahaha that last line. I gotta stop reading this in an abnormally silent office.

Not true, they are a good band

And do you know what the queers are doing to the soil?

Well, unlike the rest of the comments, that actually made me laugh.

Nobody else seems to grasp that while I may be taking this seriously, everyone else is too.

I rated a bunch of albums when I first created my profile, so that I would have some "favorite bands" show up and haven't rated any albums since, so there they stay. But yes...I would say that 90's skatepunk and it's derivitives still is my favorite. I did however, take the time to listen to your boyfriends' band for a couple songs. This may be a watershed moment in my musical history. Their unique use of growly vocals in a hardcore setting have certainly set the bar for the next generation. The cup of creativity hath runneth over. I wonder why it took so long for somebody to come up with such a breath of fresh air.

Her whole exchange made me think of that scene in Knocked Up "You're just a doorman.....doorman......DOORMAN!"