One choice answer has Queer discussing a reader's difficulties with Rush:
There are some things I can joke about but one of them is not Rush. To me they are the musical equivalent of a chipped tooth. Bands like Rush are the reason I got into heroin. Your wife knows they suck and I applaud her sturdy common sense. Now you go run off with your boyfriend and let her get to that support group she so obviously needs to recover from living with your sorry ass.